365 Things to Avoid while Homeschooling
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#48. Saying "Oh no, WHY!?!?" when a friend tells you they're putting their kids in school
It's ok to think it, but saying it like that won't do you any good. And friends try to support each other, right?
It's hard when friends go to school, because it's almost impossible to be active in the homeschool community while enrolled in a traditional school, and so we tend to lose touch. Some friendships survive the transition (and some friends don't stay in school long!), but often people move on.
How do you support your kids through these kinds of transitions?
#47 Acting as a spokesperson/spokesfamily for homeschooling if your oldest is 6 or younger, or you just started...
For reasons I don't understand, the media loves to show families with preschool-aged kids who plan to homeschool, when they talk about homeschooling. A recent example is the New York Times magazine article "School's In" which features a homeschool co-op where the oldest kids are 6, but the vast majority seem to be preschoolers, and the kids are taught by paid teachers in an environment so school-like the parents refer to it as a school. There's certainly nothing wrong with what they'r
#46 Being a slave to the school calendar...
In our area, we have reached the doldrums of summer. So, even though school's won't start up for a couple more weeks, my kids have been doing lots of school stuff, to stave off boredom (yes, my kids will drag out a math workbook as a solution to boredom ). Right about the same time kids go back to school, the weather will be beautifully cool, and the parks will be empty, and we will take a break from formal school stuff
#45 Blaming other parents for their kids' struggles...
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses-- we know this as adults, but when we see a kid exhibiting a weakness, it can be easy to want to blame their parents. Sometimes parents can contribute to a kid's struggles, but other times they might be doing everything "right" but the kid is working on his own schedule and not able to meet your expectations.
As outsiders to the family, we can't know the whole story, so it's important not to jump to conclusions.
#43 Thinking 4H is just for farm kids
As a life-long suburbanite, I never thought my kids would be in 4-H, because I thought it was a place for kids to learn about raising cows or something. But thanks to some friends I've learned better, and we are looking forward to our first county fair as a 4-H family.
#42 Misspelling "curriculum"
Come on people, we can get this right! Handy trick: if you aren't sure of the spelling of a word, search for it in google, and if it's misspelled, google will suggest the correct spelling (this is how I doublechecked the spelling of the word "misspelling" for this post )
#41 Forgetting to involve older people in our kids' education
Whether they are grandparents, neighbors, or other members of the community, kids and adults can learn a lot from older generations! Intergenerational relationships benefit everyone, improving the health of seniors and the "emotional IQ" of kids (and they can give the middle generation, Mom and Dad, a break). So, even if you're better informed than the people in the video above, look for ways to involve older generations in your homeschool. If you aren't sure how to do this, this article has several practical ideas<
#40 Leaping into the fray of e-list arguments/drama...
Homeschoolers don't agree on everything, and some of us can be pretty outspoken people. And we rely on email to communicate, a medium known for misunderstandings, especially of someone's tone. So, it's not too surprising that from time to time, there are misunderstandings and arguments on e-lists. Heck, I started one myself a few months ago, by shooting my mouth off in a group I'd recently joined.